tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post4788647773466873498..comments2024-03-26T16:11:40.327-07:00Comments on Behind The Blue Wall: [WA] The day before our police chief committed murder-suicideBehind The Blue Wallhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04429113203939514642noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-45281869525375037192007-11-16T08:30:00.000-08:002007-11-16T08:30:00.000-08:00To ANONYMOUS:YOU ARE NOT ALONE!! Unfortunately, t...To ANONYMOUS:<BR/><BR/>YOU ARE NOT ALONE!! Unfortunately, they are so many of us in your situation. My ex-cop husband managed to throw me in jail and take FULL custody of my children. I cannot begin to tell you how my life has been turned upside down.<BR/><BR/>Eventually, my husband's actions caught up with him and he is now in jail. I have now started picking up the pieces of my life...although I think it will be a LONG time before I am anywhere near healed. Do we ever completely heal? I dont know.<BR/><BR/>Hang in there, hon. I am glad that you have faith in God...HE will not let you down. Please take care of yourself, and just know that you are NOT ALONE. <BR/><BR/>In Love and Light,<BR/>LeahAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-46981401164249598722007-11-15T19:19:00.000-08:002007-11-15T19:19:00.000-08:00Comment? I am going through this right now, at pr...Comment? I am going through this right now, at present. I have been fighting this "thing" (can't call him a man, he's not human)for years. I have been abused and falsely accused of abusing him during the last incident that ultimately resulted in our divorce (been two years, not final yet). His "blue wall" is the DOC - no matter what I do or say or document, nothing happens to him. He has managed to remove our three children from my residential custody and is now abusing them. Each night I go to bed with this on my mind and awaken in the same state. People unaware of the cycle of violence ask, "why didn't you leave sooner?" but it's obvious...no matter when that moment comes where you have had enough and you make that fateful step, the abuse continues mentally through the court system. I have to cope with the fact that it will never really be over, ever. I do harbor some hope, I have faith in God and know that sooner or later, he'll "trip up" on his own. His lies and stories will consume him and it will become impossible to keep up with it all...it'll come crumbling down on top of him. All I can really do is make sure my children are safe when they are not with me. My love for them and their futures keep me sane and able to make it through each day. God bless you all who are going through this. There are men out there who will love you without violence, and I have managed to find one. I consider myself very lucky, but I am still afraid every day.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com