tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post5103275096995710878..comments2024-03-26T16:11:40.327-07:00Comments on Behind The Blue Wall: [OH] Nicole Ballenger pleads guilty in killing her police officer husband CedricBehind The Blue Wallhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04429113203939514642noreply@blogger.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-56937434451351467812021-07-01T12:58:17.840-07:002021-07-01T12:58:17.840-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16928662360112516269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-51309276971373913822019-01-15T11:27:33.830-08:002019-01-15T11:27:33.830-08:00Iv known Lillie for years befor this all happened ...Iv known Lillie for years befor this all happened and unfortunately I spent time with her if you really know her you’ed know she’s far from a spiteful person and she has a big heart and no we don’t know what happened that morning but to play off as she did this cause he was getting down with a mother female wrong I was in abuse relationship and st the time she may have snapped you get put down beat on and rapped you tell me how or what you would do this man was a c.o and a cop and got away with shit no one else would have cause of his title and that gave him no right to treat her that was she’s a great mom friend and loveing women Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02089833152342638276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-19413264048216160262015-02-23T04:43:41.159-08:002015-02-23T04:43:41.159-08:00Hello Brian and Andre...I was a dear friend of Ced...Hello Brian and Andre...I was a dear friend of Cedric...and to read this tragedy years later..hurts my heart...please contact me bbcboutique1@gmail.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-81248943070041506072014-06-14T16:45:06.014-07:002014-06-14T16:45:06.014-07:00A wife getting to the gun is no mystery. She's...A wife getting to the gun is no mystery. She's grown. You can't shoot people because you don't like the way you treat you or the way they make you feel. It's not the right solution. I'm not blaming anyone because what's done is done and God knows the heart, but for the rest of us, we have to find a different way than taking someone's life. It impacts everyone who cares about or loves either of them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-27481277966382765802014-06-14T13:31:54.387-07:002014-06-14T13:31:54.387-07:00Many things he would do to lower her self esteem a...Many things he would do to lower her self esteem and would just dismiss the kids amd its not all nikkis fault why would his gun even be out so someone could get to it no one has ever considered that think about itAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-3685273615389914512014-06-14T13:26:38.412-07:002014-06-14T13:26:38.412-07:00Nobody knows what went on in that house trust me i...Nobody knows what went on in that house trust me i knowAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-10844103445102064142014-01-12T14:53:22.497-08:002014-01-12T14:53:22.497-08:00With his birthday coming up I am flooded with the ...With his birthday coming up I am flooded with the memories of his great contributions to Trotwood youth! Cedric Ballenger was a great friend, awesome school resource officer and encouraging mentor to young people. He is still and always will be missed~Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-61993213757225841972013-08-06T00:29:31.522-07:002013-08-06T00:29:31.522-07:00Hi My name is Brian and thank you so much for reme...Hi My name is Brian and thank you so much for remembering my brother's memory and your "right on the mark" comments. in fact my reply to the sister I mention your comment in part regarding Cedric's treating all the children equal, even though only 2 were his biological children. He was not an abusing as is being claimed and was a father to her 4 children how could she have hoped to do better.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-5662815375317321042013-08-06T00:21:04.599-07:002013-08-06T00:21:04.599-07:00Enough said.Enough said.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-73478773794806794372013-08-06T00:14:47.238-07:002013-08-06T00:14:47.238-07:00Hi my name is Brian, Thanks for remembering my bro...Hi my name is Brian, Thanks for remembering my brother. I remember a time when it was he and I on the court playing hard and talking trash to each other. Cedric looked up to me as an older brother, It was me that got him involved in sports as a 5 year old. Again, thanks for remembering him.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-49003057839236313482013-08-06T00:09:45.016-07:002013-08-06T00:09:45.016-07:008-5-2013. Obviously you love your sister, and that...8-5-2013. Obviously you love your sister, and that's fine. Keep in mind we loved my brother Cedric to. Your comment implies that she was defending/protecting herself and her children. If you want to discuss this on a blog or anywhere else at least be honest about it. How was she protecting herself from a man sleeping in bed with at least one shot in the back. TRY AGAIN. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-53690258646087049722013-08-05T23:57:49.460-07:002013-08-05T23:57:49.460-07:008-6-2013. Thank you dear poster, my name is Brian,...8-6-2013. Thank you dear poster, my name is Brian,Cedric's older brother and your comments are fair and logical. They really make the point as you speak from a perspective of someone that knew my brother and his ex wife.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-45808571262664886682013-08-05T23:40:59.586-07:002013-08-05T23:40:59.586-07:008-5-2013: My name is Brian, I am one of Cedric Bal... 8-5-2013: My name is Brian, I am one of Cedric Ballenger's older brothers. I was reflecting on memories that my brother and I shared (good and bad) He was loved and I am missing him; which prompted me to google info about him, which in turn led me to this blog. In reading some of the comments on this blog, it amazes me that there are some that made the <br />statements he got what he deserved" and "she did nothing wrong". Well understandably or maybe not so understandably these are friend and family members <br />of Nicole. Just a reminder to them that the taking of a life is WRONG. The rape allegation was just insult to injury. My brother didn't deserve to die or have his name slandered.<br /><br /> My family members have tried our level best to maintain a calm and dignity in the face of this senseless tragedy; refusing to get into an exchange of ugly comments back and forth. Even during our visit to Ohio to make funeral arrangements for my brother, our official stance to the media was "NO COMMENT". Because of their concerns I offered the Trotwood Police Dept my assurances that their would be no trouble from our family. As hurt and pained <br />as we were, we didn't want anything to escalate starting with a war of words through the media. I met the Grandmother (who I understand has since passed) and the mother and after a somewhat rocky start we managed to smooth things over and remain cordial for the sake of all that were adversely affected, especially the children and our grieving mother. <br /><br />Let me point out that my brother was not perfect (we're all sinners) but he was no crooked cop <br />either; nor was he a rapist or an abuser. These are all lies that I will defend my brother against until my dying day. A true measure of his character is that he even married a woman with 4 children (one with special needs) produced two more with her and treated them all equal. I would like to thank the other poster for pointing that out as well. <br /><br />And while I'm at it I would like to again thank Maj. Swafford and "Big E" both of the Trotwood Police Dept. and there were others including Cedric's and Nicole's spiritual advisor Pastor Mann. There were others who's names escape me so many years later and I'm truly sorry about that because you were very instrumental in helping us navigate through a troubled time in an unfamiliar city. <br /><br /> On behalf of my family we thank you and have never stopped thanking you. We include in our thanks the board members of the Cedric Ballenger Scholarship Foundation and the annual Bike Ride. And lastly the out pouring of love shown by the Trotwood High School faculty and students who we never got to formally offer thanks to. It will forever be ingrained in my mind and heart the way those kids lined the street and stood shoulder to shoulder as the procession passed by their school. To all of my brother's friends and colleagues that remember him fondly we send love and thanks to you as well. There is one brotha in particular he and his lady friend helped so much and showed so much love and compassion and it kills me that i can't recall his/their namea. Please forgive me you both deserve better. My brother is gone now and we loved and miss him dearly as any family would miss one of their own. Nicole is in prison as she should be and her children have no <br />mother or father in their lives. And you think she did nothing wrong? I'm left to question your sense of right and wrong as well as your I.Q. Such a senseless tragedy. BeskandBrigtest@aol.com Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-6472760735277117642013-01-13T16:42:52.776-08:002013-01-13T16:42:52.776-08:00i have been on the beaten side but that does not g...i have been on the beaten side but that does not give any one the right to take anothers life I knew Ceddy And Nikki.... and she was wrong way before this happend just as he was but in the end she did what she did knowingly and that is why she is where she is but does not justify him being gone.... his family, friends miss him so to this day and yes God will judge them when that time comes i know in my heart he judged Ceddy foe his wrong doings just as he will Nikki but remeber they were DISSOLUSIONED when this sensless crime took place so what if he got text messages THOU SHALL NOT KILL!!!!!!!!! will be judged also.... and to call your family and pastor before you call the police and to do this in your home with your children.... SMH i know where ill go when i pass do you... Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-82360732321399516632012-03-24T22:48:29.034-07:002012-03-24T22:48:29.034-07:00Does anyone remember that they were divorced, and ...Does anyone remember that they were divorced, and I don't think being shot in the back for a suspected affair is justified if it was an, "an affair". I knew Ced, he was a kind and caring person, far from a crooked cop or an abusive person. He took all those kids as his own, as a matter of fact for a really long time i thought they all were all naturally his. Does anyone think about them? She shot him and left his body upstairs for a long period of time with the kids in the house aware of what was going on, she has people coming to the house before she called the police. She wasn't thinking of anyone but herself and covering her own rear. She didn't get what she deserved! He deserves to be remembered as the kind a decent person he was and no one should speak I'll of him. He put his life on the line every time he went to work, he was a uncommon officer, he was kind to people an treated them with the respect they deserved and he got results that way. That is the way he should be remembered!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-87129928769265692032011-12-08T14:46:42.944-08:002011-12-08T14:46:42.944-08:00So what if he cheated, that didn't give her th...So what if he cheated, that didn't give her the right to kill himAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-25834584048063726672011-11-22T19:05:56.464-08:002011-11-22T19:05:56.464-08:00It's funny some people are posting their comme...It's funny some people are posting their comments on the internet disrespecting my uncle but when they were confronted in person they were quiet as a mouse...and you know who you are tooAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-28677946889274809782011-10-24T04:45:55.181-07:002011-10-24T04:45:55.181-07:00Has Nicole's family seen the case of Barbara S...Has Nicole's family seen the case of Barbara Sheehan that's been in the news? <br /><br />Google: Barbara Sheehan NYPD husband.Behind The Blue Wallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04429113203939514642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-89581740760583466602011-10-24T04:42:19.310-07:002011-10-24T04:42:19.310-07:00It's very sad.It's very sad.Behind The Blue Wallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04429113203939514642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-87198900499790182822011-10-23T22:28:46.530-07:002011-10-23T22:28:46.530-07:00FOR ALL WHO KNOW NICOLE, WE KNOW SHE IS INNOCENT.S...FOR ALL WHO KNOW NICOLE, WE KNOW SHE IS INNOCENT.SHE ONLY GOT THE MAX TIME BECAUSE HE WAS A P.O.,BUT FOR ALL THAT REALLY KNEW HIM, HE DESERVED JUST WHAT HE GOT. HE WAS WRONG AND SHE SHOULD HAVE TRIED TO GET AWAY.HE WAS AN ADULTERER AND CRROKED COP, OFF-DUTY. ITS NOT FAIR TO NICKY OR HER SIX CHILDREN, BUT GOD IS USING HER GREATLY TO HELP OTHER BATTERED WOMEN. POLICE AND HIGH OFFICIALS GET AWAY WITH MURDERS AND OTHER WHITE-COLLAR CRIMES, BUT IN THE END, GOD WILL PREVAIL.AND TO JUDGE GORMAN AND THE PROSECUTORS, YOU WILL FACE GOD ONE DAY AND ANSWER TO ALL THE WRONGFUL CONVICTI0NS OF INNOCENT PEOPLE, AND RELEASING REAL CRIMINALS AND ADDICTS.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-49290543513695014992010-10-26T21:31:52.581-07:002010-10-26T21:31:52.581-07:00Karen - whose mom are you? Is this comment on the ...Karen - whose mom are you? Is this comment on the right post?Behind The Blue Wallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04429113203939514642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-91326963462355999522010-10-26T20:29:56.650-07:002010-10-26T20:29:56.650-07:00THIS WAS MY DAUGHTER. SHE WAS LOVED BY MANY PEOPLE...THIS WAS MY DAUGHTER. SHE WAS LOVED BY MANY PEOPLE. SHE WILL BE MISSED DEARLY. WE DON'T WANT TO HEAR ANY BAD COMMITS. WE NEED ALL THE PRAYERS WE CAN GET. PLEASE DON'T DOWN MY DAUGHTER.SHE DID NOTHING WRONG. SHE IS IN HEAVEN AND MY FAMILY AND GRANDSONS DON'T NEED TO READ ANY UPSETTING WORDS. PLEASE BE KIND TO ALL OF US. THANK YOU KAREN *ANNA'S MOM*Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-79104150631434078592010-10-26T11:09:15.205-07:002010-10-26T11:09:15.205-07:00MY SISTER IS NOT A BAD PERSON SHE HAD TO PROTECT H...MY SISTER IS NOT A BAD PERSON SHE HAD TO PROTECT HER SELF AS WELL AS HER KIDS PEOPLE CAN TALK BOUT HER BUT I DONT THINK SHE DID ANYTHING BAD....I LOVE MY SISTER...............Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-74992663554241537722010-08-25T15:34:36.221-07:002010-08-25T15:34:36.221-07:00NICOLE BALLENGER
Number: W072142
DOB: 08/13/19...NICOLE BALLENGER<br />Number: W072142 <br />DOB: 08/13/1973<br />Gender: Female<br />Race: Black<br />Admission Date: 06/13/2008<br />Institution: Ohio Reformatory for Women<br />Status: INCARCERATED<br /> <br />Ohio Revised Code <br />Pre-S.B. 2 Felony Sentencing Chart http://www.drc.ohio.gov/OffenderSearch/PDFs/PreSB2SentenceChart.pdf<br />S.B. 2 Felony Sentencing Chart http://www.drc.ohio.gov/OffenderSearch/PDFs/FelonySentencingChart.pdf<br /><br />Offense Information<br />FEL ASSAULT<br />Counts: 2 - ORC: 2903.11 4<br /> <br />Committing County: MONTGOMERY<br />Admission Date: 06/13/2008<br />Degree of Felony: First<br /><br />INVOL MANSLAUGHTER<br />Counts: 1 ORC: 2903.04 4<br /> <br />Committing County: MONTGOMERY<br />Admission Date: 06/13/2008<br /><br />Degree of Felony: First<br /> <br />Sentence Information<br />Stated Prison Term: 15 years<br />Expiration Stated Term:04/12/2025<br />Gun Specification: 3 years <br /><br />http://www.drc.ohio.gov/OffenderSearch/Details.aspx?id=W072142<br /><br /><br />Correspondence<br />Written correspondence to inmates must include the inmate's name and number on the envelope and be addressed to the appropriate institution.<br /><br />Ohio Reformatory for Women (ORW)<br />1479 Collins Avenue<br />Marysville, Ohio 43040<br />937-642-1065; Fax 937-642-7678<br />http://www.drc.ohio.gov/Public/orw.htmBehind The Blue Wallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04429113203939514642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-39676399811836427162010-08-25T08:16:34.096-07:002010-08-25T08:16:34.096-07:00Seems like yesterday............Yesterday we'd...Seems like yesterday............Yesterday we'd sit and laugh when he left the PD. We shot pool til the wee hours and sharing the dreams of tomorrow. Yesterday we would jump on our motorcycles and ride like free soldiers with plenty of great moments to be thankful about. Yesterday Ced would walk in to any room and give that stern look that only last a second as he'd burst out laughing saying, "SUP"..... Yesterday I'd watch Ced and Big "E" ball in my back yard while they released the PD day away and at the same time made the rival entertaining. From the White paint on the top of Erik's head from the garage door to the no dunk on me rule set by Ced yesterday is how it was. Yesterday Ced brightened up many faces yet still maintained the ability to uphold the law. Yesterday a GOOD man, father, brother, uncle, son and most of all FRIEND was taken away from us.........No more shooting pool with my Homie, watching he and E fuss while playing ball only to walk away laughing. The smile that he displayed to his children after a long day of work, GONE! The son that a mother loved....no longer here. The voice that spoke to the youth at Trotwood schools....no longer heard. That police officer that put his life on the line for the community.....lost his life at HOME!!!!!!!! It's so hard to say good-bye to Yesterday. SLYR.Slynoreply@blogger.com