tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post5990598107703131467..comments2024-03-26T16:11:40.327-07:00Comments on Behind The Blue Wall: [OH] Lancaster Police Officer Randy Bartow and Stephanie Jean Seifert murdered by her ex-husbandBehind The Blue Wallhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04429113203939514642noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-80171753606022301122013-09-10T22:15:33.574-07:002013-09-10T22:15:33.574-07:00This is so sad and tragic . I am just realizing m...This is so sad and tragic . I am just realizing myfiancee fits the profile for narcissistic personality disorder . Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-17638197911632632362013-06-04T10:34:39.920-07:002013-06-04T10:34:39.920-07:00I am Stephanie's Mom. She was the best daughte...I am Stephanie's Mom. She was the best daughter any parent could ever ask for. The investigating coroner told us, it was her continued kindness to her ex-husband that cost her her life. He said the message we have to get out there is: "Once you leave an abusive relationship, whether it is verbal (As was Stephanie's) or physical, you can never have contact with the abuser again. Your very life depends upon it..." The minister officiating Stephanie’s funeral told us to go out and give purpose to this senseless tragedy.<br />So, far: <br />• A Bible has been placed through the Gideon’s in Stephanie’s name <br />• 100 Bibles have been sent to China by her Aunt <br />• Many people-friends, family, and those who’ve heard her story have returned to church<br />• A billboard to promote Domestic Violence Awareness and honor Stephanie: was put up on Memorial Drive-the main road in Lancaster<br />• The Columbus Dispatch did an article on Stephanie<br />• Donations to the Humane Society in her name-She was a great lover of animals<br />• Candle lighting was held in honor of Stephanie at Roosters in October 2012<br />• Domestic Violence March was held in Stephanie’s honor at the Lancaster, Ohio branch of the Ohio University on 10/25. Lancaster Police officers joined us and walked in her honor.<br />• Purple hair extension, nails painted all purple, purple ribbon painted on at Envision Salons in Lancaster. All proceeds were given to: The Fairfield County Domestic Violence Awareness Group in Stephanie's memory & Purple hair extension; in Stephanie Seifert's memory @Julie’s Salon & Spa. All profits went towards the fight against domestic violence. Stephy’s cousin sponsored the event<br />• Golf benefit for Stephanie was held on 11/11/12. (Roosters said this is the largest response they have ever had -Memorial Bench & plaque in Stephanie’s honor to be added to the patio of Roosters-Two College funds to be opened for Stephanie’s 1st grandchild from her son & 1st grandchild from her daughter<br />• We joined Parent’s of Murdered Children-a support group for Central Ohio families-we will attend their annual candle lighting service each December-to light a candle in her honor and speak her name and our relationship to her<br />• We are checking into starting a foundation to honor Stephanie, it will be called ‘Stephy’s Story’<br />• 1st Annual Stephy’s 5K Run/Walk is being arranged for October 13, 2013 (which is domestic violence awareness month) all proceeds will go to the ‘Lighthouse’ (A safe-house for women & children trying to escape domestic violence)<br />• Facebook Page: ‘Speak Out Against Domestic Violence Silence Kills’ - Stephy’s Story (https://www.facebook.com/SpeakOutAgainstDomesticViolenceSilenceKills?ref=hl) The hopes of this page, is to encourage women and young girls to share the truth of their relationships with the ones who love them most, their parents. We have learned that victims of domestic violence live in silenced fear; for their lives, their parent’s lives, their children’s lives, and so on. Their silence is their way of thinking they are protecting their loved ones. <br />https://www.facebook.com/SpeakOutAgainstDomesticViolenceSilenceKills?ref=tn_tnmnhttps://www.facebook.com/SpeakOutAgainstDomesticViolenceSilenceKills?ref=tn_tnmnnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-53764486448765218142013-06-04T10:20:57.280-07:002013-06-04T10:20:57.280-07:00Well said...Well said...https://www.facebook.com/SpeakOutAgainstDomesticViolenceSilenceKills?ref=tn_tnmnhttps://www.facebook.com/SpeakOutAgainstDomesticViolenceSilenceKills?ref=tn_tnmnnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-17396696532418112412013-06-04T10:15:07.851-07:002013-06-04T10:15:07.851-07:00Stephy’s Story is referred to as domestic violence...Stephy’s Story is referred to as domestic violence because they had previously been married. She divorced him through dissolution in May 2012. He was never physically violent with her. His violence was always against other men; until this terrible day… <br />Stephanie was a freshman in high school when she met her husband to be. They had a baby together while still in high school, and didn’t get married until they were 19 years old; after graduation, and old enough to begin life on their own. <br />I talked to Stephy on Thursday, 10/19/12. She told me that Kevin had come to her house on 10/15/12 to tell her good-bye. That he had nothing to live for and he was going to commit suicide. (I was told by the Lancaster Chief of Police that this was only an attempt on his part to regain control of her after the divorce-He said he would've never committed suicide except for the fact he would've lost control if the police would've arrested him, he would have been brought to justice or he would've been killed by a law enforcement officer) She said she talked him out of it and told him he had much to live for. She said it took 2 days of intense encouragement. She offered to let him sleep on the couch for 2 nights and then, when she thought he was okay, she said maybe you should stay 2 more nights on the couch to make sure you’re going to be okay. She found a loaded pistol in his truck. She hid it in her house so he couldn’t have access to it. (He was probably going to kill her then, but, because of her kindness to him he thought perhaps he could regain control over her again.) Unknown to her, they believe he had a key made while staying at Steph’s. (Her kindness was used against her). She said, we talked and agreed that there was nothing between us anymore. She said, Mom, I am not physically attracted to him, I am not mentally attracted to him and I am not emotionally attracted to him. She said it has been over for me for years, and since last December she was waiting until she could get out. She said all he did was call her filthy names and scream and yell at her and the family. She said, “Because of the kids and our grandchild I don’t want anything bad to happen to him.” She was so proud of what she had done to help him and beamed as she shared with me. I marveled at her kindness and admired her as she shared. That’s the kind of person Stephanie was, always thinking of others before herself.<br />Stephanie went to breakfast with him on his birthday, on 10/21. She had even agreed to do some outings with her daughter and grandchild. She was trying to keep him encouraged about life and attempting to keep him calm. (Again, her kindness was used against her). Once you leave an abusive ex-spouse/spouse whether it is verbal or physical-YOU MUST NEVER HAVE ANY KIND OF CONTACT WITH THEM AGAIN; EVER! Your life depends upon it.<br />BCI said (Bureau of Criminal Investigation) it’s all about control with narcissistic sociopathswhich is what Kevin’s profile proves him to be. They are non-violent until the moment they choose to kill. Once he made that choice to kill, he then became a full blown psychopath and there was no turning back, ever. He said he would have killed anyone who got in his way and if he could have gotten away more people would have died; most likely more family members too. <br />https://www.facebook.com/SpeakOutAgainstDomesticViolenceSilenceKills?ref=tn_tnmnhttps://www.facebook.com/SpeakOutAgainstDomesticViolenceSilenceKills?ref=tn_tnmnnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-59015821368535599232012-12-04T20:37:15.899-08:002012-12-04T20:37:15.899-08:00From Stephanie's son:
"I am Stephanie...From Stephanie's son:<br /><br />"I am Stephanie's son. My Mom was the greatest person who walked on this Earth. She cared about everyone, and never put herself first. She was so excited to turn 40 this December. My birthday was on Thanksgiving and it was so hard to walk that day. I miss her so badly. I have never met Randy, only talked to him on the phone. They were "talking" about dating. He seemed to be a good guy and we were going to have a grill-off one night to “officially” meet. My Mom was hurting mostly due to my Dad and my Sister. It was so sad to see her hurting, but she always kept her head up. She was truly a beautiful person."Behind The Blue Wallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04429113203939514642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-1667181742444846692012-12-02T08:25:29.148-08:002012-12-02T08:25:29.148-08:00Thank you :0)Thank you :0)gasstationshellnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-1761222831338361392012-11-30T03:28:17.488-08:002012-11-30T03:28:17.488-08:00I updated the blog postI updated the blog postBehind The Blue Wallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04429113203939514642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-6520480964413104112012-11-30T02:04:26.845-08:002012-11-30T02:04:26.845-08:00Today's the last day:
Salon to conduct fundra...Today's the last day:<br /><br />Salon to conduct fundraiser for victims of domestic violence<br />3:01 AM, Nov 7, 2012 <br /><br />LANCASTER — Envision Salon and Massage, 1812 W. Fair Ave., Lancaster, is doing a fundraiser in November for the Stephanie Siefert (Adams) Benefit Fund for Victims of Domestic Violence.<br /><br />Throughout the month of November, residents can get a purple hair extension or tips for $10 per strand or a purple gel manicure for $15. All proceeds will go to the fund, which was created in Siefert’s memory. Donations to the fund also can be made at any Fairfield National Bank location.<br /><br />To schedule an appointment, call 740-681-1101.<br /><br />http://www.lancastereaglegazette.com/article/20121107/NEWS01/311070014/Salon-conduct-fundraiser-victims-domestic-violenceAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-46877642966090160102012-11-30T01:47:29.354-08:002012-11-30T01:47:29.354-08:00Walkers Remember Lancaster Murder Victims
myfox28c...Walkers Remember Lancaster Murder Victims<br />myfox28columbus.com<br />Thursday, October 25 2012<br /><br />LANCASTER -- Walkers took to the streets Thursday to raise domestic violence awareness, and to honor the memories of two people recently murdered in Lancaster.<br /><br />Several people took part in the two-mile walk, which raised money for the Lighthouse domestic violence shelter. Also on the minds of the participants were Stephanie Seifert and Lancaster Police Officer Randy Bartow, who were killed Tuesday, allegedly by Siefert's ex-husband.<br /><br />Seifert's friend, Cheryse Hubbard, took part in the walk, and says Stephanie "would've wanted something good to come out of [the murders]."<br /><br />Hubbard said a golf outing is being planned to raise money for Seifert's family.<br /><br />Reporter: Terri Sullivan<br />Web Producer: Ken Hines<br /><br /><a href="http://www.myfox28columbus.com/shared/news/top-stories/stories/wtte_walkers-remember-lancaster-murder-victims-20299.shtml" rel="nofollow">http://www.myfox28columbus.com/shared/news/top-stories/stories/wtte_walkers-remember-lancaster-murder-victims-20299.shtml</a><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-41303738522310999992012-10-31T05:38:27.538-07:002012-10-31T05:38:27.538-07:00Stephanie Jean Seifert (1972 - 2012)
Obituary
Lanc...Stephanie Jean Seifert (1972 - 2012)<br />Obituary<br />Lancaster Eagle-Gazette<br />October 28, 2012<br />[Excerpts] LANCASTER: Stephanie Jean Seifert, 39, of Lancaster went to be with the Lord on Tuesday, October 23, 2012. She was born in Lancaster on December 29, 1972 the only child of Brandt and Judy (Cordle) Seifert. She was a 1991 graduate of Lancaster High School. Stephanie was employed by Century 21 Darfus Reality where she had won numerous awards. She was also employed by Roosters. Prior to working for Century 21 she was the Assistant Manager of the main branch of Community Bank. She is survived by her parents... a son... and a daughter... a granddaughter... her maternal grandparents... and many close and special friends... Funeral Services were held Saturday at 9 am at the Victory Hill Church and were officiated by Pastor Dwain Pyeatt. Burial followed in Floral Hills Memory Gardens...<br />http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/lancastereaglegazette/obituary.aspx?pid=160690007#fbLoggedOut<br />Behind The Blue Wallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04429113203939514642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-29921063507374718622012-10-30T14:26:19.366-07:002012-10-30T14:26:19.366-07:00Stephanie was a close dear friend of mine. Her ex ...Stephanie was a close dear friend of mine. Her ex wasalso a family friend and boss of my husband. This week has been a nightmare that is never ending. Stephanie had a heart of gold and a smile the could light the way. She will always and forever be in my heart. It is so hard to knowing I will never be able to talk to her again. I didnt know Officer Bartow but I hear he was a good man. May the three of them find comfort and peace in this tragic incident.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09401098543684880215noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-47732770499756887462012-10-26T11:03:25.811-07:002012-10-26T11:03:25.811-07:00I have been looking for information on Stephanie a...I have been looking for information on Stephanie and the news seems only focused on Randy. If you want to share something about Stephanie it would be very welcomed. Behind The Blue Wallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04429113203939514642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-91033436728601924812012-10-26T07:42:24.346-07:002012-10-26T07:42:24.346-07:00Funeral service for Randy Bartow changed
Oct. 25, ...Funeral service for Randy Bartow changed<br />Oct. 25, 2012, 7:28 p.m. EDT<br />Logan Daily News<br /><br />LOGAN — The funeral service for Randy Lee Bartow, 56, of Logan, the man killed in Tuesday’s murder-suicide shooting in Lancaster, has been changed.<br /><br />The funeral service will now be held at 11 a.m., Saturday, Oct. 27, at the Logan Church of the Nazarene located at 650 Walhonding Ave., Logan, with Lancaster Police Chaplin Tony Salvatori officiating.<br /><br />Bartow graduated from Logan High School in 1974, and was a veteran law enforcement officer, serving with the Lancaster Police Department, Logan Police Department, and Nelsonville Police Department during this career. He also taught at Hocking College.<br /><br />Besides Bartow, others killed in the shooting included 40-year-old Kevin Adams and 38-year-old Stephanie Adams. Bartow and Adams had been dating for a short time, and officials say that Kevin Adams shot the couple before turning the gun on himself.<br /><br />“He had a great outlook on life and personality, and was willing to help you out and was an all around good person,” Hocking County Lanny North said of Bartow earlier this week. “He’ll be greatly missed.”<br /><br />http://www.cleveland.com/newsflash/index.ssf/story/funeral-service-for-randy-bartow-changed/1640615fa9804d1b93b53c954cf8dd64Behind The Blue Wallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04429113203939514642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-21663938019259790982012-10-26T07:40:18.579-07:002012-10-26T07:40:18.579-07:00RANDY LEE BARTOW OBITUARY
Lancaster Eagle-Gazette
...RANDY LEE BARTOW OBITUARY<br />Lancaster Eagle-Gazette<br />October 26, 2012<br />[Excerpts] LOGAN: Randy Lee Bartow, age 56 of Logan, Ohio, passed away unexpectedly, Tuesday, October 23, 2012 in Lancaster, Ohio. Born March 20, 1956 in Columbus, Ohio, he was the son of the late John Leffler and Rachel Kathryn (Hitchings) Bartow. Randy was a veteran officer of the Lancaster Police Department, and had worked at both the Nelsonville Police Department and Logan Police Department prior to joining the Lancaster force. He had been an adjunct faculty member at Hocking College teaching Law Science. Randy had formerly worked for the Ohio Department of Natural Recourses in the Oil and Reclamation Department. A member of Fraternal Order of Police. He was honored as Officer of the Year in both 1999 and 2002. In 2002, he also received the Ohio House of Representatives Brett Markwood Award. Randy had served in the United States Marine Reserves and the Ohio National Guard. He is survived by one daughter... and three brothers... A funeral service will be held 11:00 a.m. Saturday, October 27, 2012 Logan Church Of The Nazarene, 650 Walhonding Avenue, Logan, Ohio with Lancaster Police Chaplin Tony Salvatori officiating. Burial will follow in Greenlawn Cemetery, Nelsonville, Ohio where a graveside service will be conducted by the Lancaster Police Honor Guard. Friends may call today from 2-4 and 6-8 p.m. at Roberts Funeral Home, Logan. The family suggests contributions in Randy's memory be made to Special Friends of Hocking County, P.O. Box 1012 Logan, Ohio 43138. Letters of condolence may be left at www.robertsfuneralhomelogan.com [Full obituary <a href="http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/lancastereaglegazette/obituary.aspx?n=randy-lee-bartow&pid=160652553&fhid=8690#fbLoggedOut" rel="nofollow">here</a>]<br />Behind The Blue Wallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04429113203939514642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11646417.post-41382297338069891512012-10-24T19:47:18.763-07:002012-10-24T19:47:18.763-07:00Randy was an absolute true blue friend who cared a...Randy was an absolute true blue friend who cared about not just his law-enforcement brothers and sisters, but everyone. I'll miss you buddy. I carry the black with thin blue line wrist band you gave me with honor. In your honor that is. CurtAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com