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Wednesday, February 27, 2008

[FL] Deputy Sliker arrested for head-butting girlfriend

Flagler County Deputy Arrested For Head-Butting Woman in Mouth
PALM COAST, FL -- A sheriff's deputy now finds himself in trouble with the law after police say he head butted a woman in her mouth. The Flagler County Sheriff's Office says Deputy Darin Sliker, 40, was arrested at his home in Palm Coast following a domestic disturbance at a local tavern. The victim told deputies that she and Sliker exchanged words outside Farley's Pub in the Palm Harbor Shopping Center in Palm Coast. At one point, Sliker grabbed the victim and struck her in the face with his head, the victim said. Deputies reported the victim suffered minor injuries to her mouth. Sliker was booked into the Flagler County Inmate Facility and released on $250 bond after appearing before a judge. Deputy Sliker has been placed on paid administrative leave pending an internal investigation. He has been with the Sheriff's Office for five years.

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  1. First off, Deputy slikers head-butt is not his first domestic violence incident is false. D. Sliker was the victim of Feb 23rd. A deputy corrosed the victim into writing a false statement and the deputy also signed the charge against D. Sliker. The victim wrote a signed statement on how she was corrosed into writing a statement and never wanted a charge against D. Sliker. D. Sliker filed a injunction against the victim and was granted the injunction. A judge granting the injunction proves D. Sliker was the victim that night. The victim told the Deputy the truth of what happened and he then called his Captain and told his captain. The deputy took it into his own hand signing charges against D. SLiker. When the IA was being conducted. The Captain explains how the deputy called him and explained what was told to him by the deputy. When the deputies were being questioned they all had conflicting stories and so many holes in there stories. Also a deputy signed his own report. That is against policy. That also shows another hole in the story. Why would he sign his own report. Why didnt his supervisor sign the report? An IA was requested to be done on those deputies and was denied. The corrupption that goes on at the FCSO is just mind boggling. D. Sliker who was the victim that night has been treated like he is a murderer. TO have these lies on the internet about D. Sliker again just mind boggles me. D. Sliker proved his inocense when the injunction was granted against the victim.

  2. Okay - so we are moving our conversation from private emails to the blog. If you like.

    What about the victim's brother saying that Sliker threatened him more than once?

    And the victim's brother was NOT granted his injunction against Sliker. Does that prove it never happened? In your mind, is he also conspiring with the deputies - and a liar? He sounds like a brother very worried about his sister - and his own safety.


    Injunction against Flagler deputy denied
    Daytona Beach News-Journal (FL) - Friday, June 6, 2008
    Author: LAUREN SONIS
    BUNNELL - A judge rejected granting an injunction against a Flagler County sheriff's deputy Thursday, after a man petitioned for one saying the deputy threatened to beat him up. The case against Deputy Darin Sliker did not rise to a level that justified an injunction for protection, ruled Senior Judge H. Pope Hamrick Jr.. Christopher ______, the man who sought the injunction against Sliker , is the brother of ______. In March, ______ said she would no longer pursue a battery charge against her former beau, Sliker , who she once said head-butted her outside a Palm Coast bar. She wrote that a lieutenant at the Sheriff's Office pressured her into pressing charges. In a March affidavit, she wrote that she is pregnant with Sliker 's baby and "can't be under stress." Christopher ______ said he did not agree with his sister's dropping her charge. In his opinion, "it was dropped because she fears him," he said in an interview outside of the hearing. Christopher ______ said during the hearing he filed his case because Sliker threatened him twice. He said he had earlier told Sliker 's new girlfriend that Sliker was violent, and Sliker threatened him after that. He said Sliker also threatened him within the past year and a half after he confronted Sliker for pushing his sister in a parking lot... On April 7, Sliker filed for a protective injunction against ______ and won. Sliker and ______ started dating in June 2005. Since then, they've filed complaints against each other...


    As far as an injunction proving Sliker was a victim of the said-victim's bloody mouth, this whole blog is filled to the brim with scared victims who recant what they initially said, or who take the blame for their own injuries. Run searches through this blog for the words "recant" and "recanted." It's what scared victims do. Probably moreso in officer-involved incidents for reasons we all probably know.

    "Officer-involved domestic violence" means just that - that the officer was "involved." Sometimes he or she is the perp and sometimes the victim - but as far as you saying in a private email to me that I was lying:

    News of Record
    Daytona Beach News-Journal
    Wednesday, April 11, 2007
    ...Darin Sliker v. _______, domestic violence...
    News Record Number: 409878308


    News of Record
    Daytona Beach News-Journal (FL)
    Wednesday, February 27, 2008
    ...Darin Sliker , 40, no address, battery domestic violence...
    ...____________ v. Darin Sliker , petition for injunction for protection against domestic violence...
    Record Number: 410133002

    And if legal rulings hold so much weight with you - how about THIS one that says there was no conspiracy?

    State: Deputies didn't conspire against co-worker
    Daytona Beach News-Journal (FL) - Saturday, June 21, 2008
    Author: LAUREN SONIS
    A Flagler County deputy said fellow deputies conspired against him when they arrested him for battery in February, after his ex-girlfriend accused him of head-butting her outside a Palm Coast bar. But the State Attorney's Office in Flagler County has dismissed the complaints Deputy Darin Sliker filed against the other deputies. Sliker sought charges of false arrest, tampering with a witness and conspiracy against Lt. Paul Bovino. Sliker requested charges of false arrest and conspiracy be brought against Deputy Gregory Tietje. And Sliker filed to have a charge of conspiracy brought against Cpl. Jamie Roster.. The State Attorney's Office in Putnam County investigated the battery case against Sliker before it was dropped. The Putnam office also investigated allegations, including domestic battery and filing a false report, made by Sliker in April against his ex-girlfriend. The Putnam office dismissed those charges... In a recorded interview with Assistant State Attorney Steve Nelson, when answering a question about whether someone coerced her to make a statement, ______, the ex-girlfriend, said alcohol and emotions may have affected her memory about what she told deputies...
    Record Number: 410218853


    If you are Sliker pretending to be someone else to me in our emails, that's okay. But if you are the somebody else - and think you are helping Sliker by taking this public it would be good to figure out how far you want to go. What I usually see is that those who try to HELP actually flush out MORE information against the same person they had set out to clear.

    You are FREE to post here, but like you are asking me in emails to take down this blog entry, you may end up wishing I'd take down the comments too.

    To-date I have never removed anyone from this blog. I have many many requests to do so, and I've been threatened. My family has been threatened. But even when I consider taking one down I think what about the next victim not even having the chance to see what might be ahead.

  3. I have nothing personal against Sliker. I did not arrange his life, make his choices, or pick his woman. I am treating the news on Sliker like I treat the news on the others here. Is the story always right? No. That's why the comments can serve to clear up things or present more info to set the record straight.

    If I was king, cops wouldn't drink. That would knock off probably 75% of the posts here. A whole lot of people who are dead - including officers themselves - would still be alive.

    We ask them to be bold, to take charge, to growl even - but mixed with off-duty drinking it can be a disaster.

  4. Sliker is a violent man. He behaves as a high school delinquent, but when aged over 40 this behavior is no longer acceptable. (corrosed a word? i think you were lookin for coerced) i see your education exceeds darins self-controll. Do not take this blog down. That battle is with any luck, over. But with anymore luck, his next would be victim just might google his name and save herself from this monster, who btw has yet to step up to the plate and pay financially for his newest child who is absolutely adorable!!! Actually, with reguards to being a decent person, i could forgive the head butt and attempt at intimidation on all he meets, if the sorry SOB would at least send a pack of diapers. Not wanting to be a father is one thing, not at least helping a young single mom financially is just messed up man. Probably should have thought about that before you sleep with GIRLS half your age who might me a lil bit more susceptable to getting pregnant. but we have if anything established that thinking just is not one of darins strong points.

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  7. I have toned down the post and it's title. Speaking with Jennifer and Darin behind the scenes has led me to do this - for the first time on this blog.

  8. Sorry - took it a step farther. I deleted Deputy Sliker's comment because it gave Jennifer's last name.
    I have with his permission posted his statement - but with her last name redacted - here:

    [FL] In Deputy Sliker's own words

  9. From Deputy Sliker "Those whom know me personally will testify that I have never had an issue with owning up to my actions." Step up to the plate and support your adorable son. The headbut could be forgiven, but not stepping up to the plate and supporting your child is just selfish. How can you say you own up to your own actions? Sliker is a sorry SOB who at 40 acts like an immature child. Definition of a MAN: a man supports his family and CHILDREN. He yet has not even tried to make contact to see his son or pay a penny for his son. Sliker is playing the poor me card, and at his age he should know how to make a right decision and choice!

  10. Sliker, Sliker, Sliker. If this was not monitored I would love to use a thousand curse words to describe you "personally" and professionally with regards to you as a "man", father, and person. Not gonna carry on too much, Ill just get to the point. You are a sociopath, a sneak, and a fake. Take care of your kids you freakin loser!!!!!

  11. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OQAIbBb1vQs

  12. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JG8SZ3uKlxI

  13. I am considering taking this blog entry down. I have never done that before. Is there any reason I should leave it up? Is there any reason that I should not believe that he has changed locations and changed his employment goals?

  14. AnonymousMay 02, 2009

    This is absolutely news worthy. As a member of Law Enforcement you are held to a standard higher than anyone.

  15. AnonymousMay 02, 2009

    lol sliker,---this guys so lame

    he arrested a friend of mine in a bar scuffle,my friend didnt realy get the chance to have a major brawl because he was in the back of slikers car really fast,well on the way to the jail my friend was being an idiot and smashing his forehead into the cage in the car,so sliker -now mind you this is hear say but i tend to believe my friends-pulled over and proceeded to beat my friend black and blue on the side of us1. say what you want but this guy has a problem controlling his hands and needs to be dealt with properly

  16. A week ago, in response to a communication from Sliker, I asked him to send me verification that he is telling me the truth about certain things,

    and I haven't heard from him since.

    So the blog stays.

  17. WHOOP! Seems I'm even smarter today than I was yesterday. I have a better idea now of what's up.
    That's all I'm going to say.

    Oh, and again, the blog entry stays.

    I was as fair and as open to being objective as anyone can be without crossing the line of being stupid.

    I gave Sliker the opportunity to show that he was telling the truth and he never responded.

    I don't know who adyinalife1028 is but that didn't work here either.

    Be good. Stay safe.

  18. adayinalife1028 - funny, Deputy Sliker claims to not know who you are after I let him know that I know that you are not Jennifer.

    I'm pretty sure I get it now.

  19. AnonymousMay 18, 2009

    Its funny, Sliker claims to be the victim of everything..... He thinks his life is over and cant get a job due to the internet, give me a break. Maybe he should think before he acts. This is what you get for beating up on a 23 year old female. Sliker at 40 years old you shouldn't date someone half your age, get her pregnant and take no responsibility of being a father to your 3rd child. Sliker forgets to mention the truth of everything. He gives his side of the story and makes it out like he is the victim. Everyone who knows Sliker and Jennifer knows what the truth is. Everyone knows he abused her, emotionally, mentally and physically. Sliker would do nothing, but call her names, put her down, and make her feel as if he was the only person she could be with. Sliker would tell her to kill herself on a daily basis, call her fat, a whore, slut, worthless, and the list goes on. When someone of Slikers nature puts an individual down in that matter and all the time, the only outcome is the individual will go into a state of depression. Sliker gave her a black eye because she texted a friend stating they could no longer be friends, pushed her several times, controled who she was allowed to hang out with, intimidated her, threatned her several times. Sliker also tried to fight her brother because Sliker pushes her. Slikers answer to everything is lets take it to the mat. Sliker wants to handle any situation with violence. Just because you know Jui-Jitsu doesn't mean you are GOD!!!!!! The real victim here is the child, which Sliker has yet to support. Sliker its everyone else that is in the wrong, but did you maybe think that its YOU, not everyone else????

  20. Over 2000 posts on this blog and I can count on one hand the number of the accused who took full responsibility for their actions.

    Blaming has more a part in abusing than we realize, and might be a good early indicator.

  21. AnonymousJune 18, 2009


  22. AnonymousJuly 28, 2009

    A year and a half later this nonsense is still up. WOW, some people need a life. I think its time to let this man have his life back. All the reports are public now, and if you read them you can see that this man is the true victim. This female makes a lie and destroys his life and there is nothing about that on here, but there is everything and anything on here to try and make him out to be the bad guy. Behind The Blue Wall, I think it is time you do more research and get the truth and read all the reports, I think you may see that she really is not the victim, and that he is.

  23. Darin,you have set up more than ten websites to say you are a victim but I don't see her chasing you. Any reasonable person who runs your name in a basic Google search can see that you have developed a real problem. You have stated that you want to clear your name so you can work, yet put up website after website to smear her. She's gone... somewhere taking care of a darling baby with no help of any kind from you.

    Your many websites, including setting one up falsely in the name of an unrelated party to your case, makes you look like an obsessed and stalking madman, not a victim, and certainly not employable. You keep waving her recant around and tried to post it under both of your posts here yesterday - but you have plenty of websites already posting it. I let you post your statement on the blog here when you were still acting like a regular human being - but since then you have shown all your teeth, your irrational vacillating, and your true intentions. I listened at first, but you have been just awful behind the scenes and because of that I think the following is really right on time - seems your "MORAL CHARACTER" is up for review.

    (It's no wonder anyone would toss you a recant in hopes you'd finally go away. She did and you don't.)

  24. Darin Sliker's "moral character" has an appointment with the State of Florida's Criminal Justice Standards and Training Commission on August 5th, 2009. Excerpts from the online document, with link provided below:

    Criminal Justice Standards and Training Commission Meeting
    Sawgrass Marriott Resort
    1000 PGA Tour Boulevard
    Ponte Vedra Beach, Florida 32082

    347 So. 2d 1102 (Fla. 1st DCA 1997)

    “Moral character as used in this statute, means not only the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, but the character to observe the difference; the observance of the rules of right conduct, and conduct which indicates and establishes the qualities generally acceptable to the populace for positions of trust and confidence.”

    364 So. 2d 454 (Fla. 1978) – Florida Supreme Court

    “In our view a finding of a lack of ‘good moral character’ should not be restricted to those acts that reflect moral turpitude. A more appropriate definition of the phrase requires an inclusion of acts and conduct which would cause a reasonable man to have substantial doubts about an individual’s honesty, fairness, and respect for the rights of others and for the laws of the state and nation.”

    I. Call to Order
    Glen Hopkins, T&R Manager
    Kim Harrison, Case Specialist

    II. Roll Call
    SHERIFF JOHN RUTHERFORD – (2nd Alternate)

    III. Panel Convenes




    Page 7 of 11

    A. MORAL CHARACTER (continued)





    06-16-2008 &

    Flagler County Sheriff's Office


    [Probable Cause Determination - August 5, 2009, @ 10:00 A.M.]



  25. From: Darin Sliker
    Fri, Jun 12, 2009 at 3:48 PM
    To: "CloudWriter@G"

    WOW what planet are you from, what I am doing to Jennifer? Do you understand what happened to me, I was attacked in a vehicle by this physiologically crazed individual that caused her own injury. This same nut job then fabricated a story with deputies to avoid criminal implication for her own actions and I was subsequently arrested for that fabrication, not to mention I continue to be treated like the criminal to date by people like you, who display no concern for victims of domestic violence or any other crime for that matter if you are not female and god forbid if you are a male Law Enforcement officer. Understand Jennifer Vanderbur, Paul Bovino, Greg Tietje and Jamie Roster are the criminals, not me. The last thing I want is to forget about this incident until these individuals are held accountable for their actions and they will, it is not a matter of if, it is a matter of when. Why don’t you tell the families of the victims of 911 to forget about the atrocities of that horrific day and the shit bags who committed it, we don’t need to find Bin Laden just let him go, good luck with that, let me know how that works out for you. Guilty people want you to forget an incident they got away with, that’s probably why the morally challenged individuals I mentioned above wish I would just let this go.

    Hopefully some day you will heal from what is causing you such bias conclusions, when male male LEO are involved in a dispute.

    Thank you,

    Darin Sliker

  26. Regarding the above email, of course I never told him to "forget" about anything. I just said if he wants to talk, let's talk about what he is doing to Jennifer online - referring to his MANY websites he has put up to say he is her victim.

    She's gone away to another state. She doesn't post anywhere on the internet. She tossed him a recant on her exit... but he continues and continues and continues.

    I fear for her. I fear for the law enforcement personnel he mentions above in his email (Paul Bovino, Greg Tietje and Jamie Roster), and for any of the people he blames. And I'd be silly to not see the possibility of potential harm to myself, but I've accepted that goes with the territory of maintaining this blog.

    He equates what has happened to him as a personal 9-11, and every one he blames (and wants to bring to justice) now appear to be his Bin Laden's.

    That's some scary stuff.

  27. I shared many cooperative emails with Mr. Sliker's very reasonable attorney. Mr. Sliker is operating now outside of what his attorney has recommended.

    His attorney was not aware of the many websites Mr. Sliker has started.

    [There is a reason I am using Ms. Vanderbur's whole name now.]

    Nobody's perfect. I don't know what Ms. Vanderbur or Mr. Sliker did or did not do, but I know who is behaving in a very concerning manner.

  28. This Sliker character seems to be a very scary man. Someone that is a true victim does not behave this way. If I was Ms. Vanderbur I would be scared not only for myself but my son. I dont know neither of them either, but this is a scary situation. It seems he is a mad man and would hurt anyone who gets in his way of destroying Ms. Vanderburs life. I take it he has no contact with his son. It is sad to what he is doing to his son. He is not only hurting Ms. Vanderbur with all his websites, but his son as well. To me that is just sad. To mentally hurt a child in this manner. I hope this man does not have any other kids and if he does DCF really needs to look at him.

  29. I have ENDURED so much about this case that it's about time for me to go public with what's been happening behind the scenes. A couple of more pushes from either party is all it will take. I'm tired of being courteously silent about it.

    Sliker is on this blog because he chooses to be. I worked out a deal in behalf of the victim and he, Sliker, DECIDED to not keep his agreed-to part of the deal.

    The Herald-Tribune examines how Florida police officers can stay on the job despite multiple complaints, crimes

    Darin Sliker
    Sex: Male
    Race: White
    Birth Date: 11/1967
    Employment History
    Flagler County Sheriff's Office

    Class: Law EnforcementType: Full-TimeStart Date: 2/16/2004Location: Flagler County Separation: (Separated on 8/6/2008) Terminated for Violating Ch. 943.13(4), FS or Moral Character Standards
    False Statement


    Misuse Of Public Position

    Source: Internal InvestigationCategory: DisStatus: Decertified by CommissionOpened Date: 9/9/2008Closed Date: 8/17/2011Discipline: Revocation
    Battery - Domestic Violence

    Source: OtherCategory: DisStatus: No Caused by StaffOpened Date: 2/25/2008Closed Date: 7/21/2008 No Discipline Imposed
    Law Enforcement

    Status: Inactive - RevokedValid From: 9/14/2004 to 6/30/2009


  31. Remove this blog

  32. Remove this blog

  33. Check on her son.

  34. How come the cops in Flagler county that commit crimes are not plastered all over the Internet????

  35. AnonymousJune 13, 2013

    this is very scary to a women and more so to a women who has been a victim of darin he did the same thing to a women in new jersey where he now lives the mental abuse is all the same its a shame he wasn't stopped before he did it again


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